Main > Living > Relationships > Divorce
Divorce should be the first thing one considers when entering into any serious relationship. As with most areas of life, there is no sense in delaying the inevitable.
Diogenes (25)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Making friends
Compliment people and ask people about themselves. Be in a happy and positive frame of mind.
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Main > Living > Relationships > Family
As the saying goes, one can choose one's friends but not one's family, so make the best of it. Alternatively, if they are troublesome, you can always have nothing to do with them.
Diogenes (25)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Family > Young children
If you suck as a parent, use day care alot.
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Main > Living > Relationships > Marriage
After making a reasoned decision, do you abandon it? Marriage involves compromise at least 50% of the time, more if you're male. Can you be contented to do what makes absolutely no sense to you?
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Main > Living > Relationships > Marriage
If you're a rational person, who'd only marry someone rational, so as to avoid compromise and conflict, then you're really wanting to marry yourself.
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Main > Living > Relationships > Marriage
The main motive people have for marriage is probably not sex, but lack of confidence.
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Main > Living > Relationships > Family
Avoid them unless you need money, then, pretend you care.
Diogenes (25)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Making friends
If you're the sort of person who easily attracts friends, consider changing your personality, because it sucks.
Diogenes (25)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Making friends
Friends are thieves of time. Would you give a thief your wallet just because he asked for it?
Diogenes (25)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Making friends
The more talk, the less think.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships
If a male tells a female about his ideal emotional/sexual relationship, and does not talk of non-attachment at all, he is certain to be courting her.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Domestic violence
The one with dominating emotions is the perpetrator of violence; the one with submitting emotions is the perpetuator of violence. There is no violence without the game of domination-submission.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Domestic violence
Being a 'people person', who depends on others to motivate, inspire, think, and stimulate one, creates violence. The reason is because person-dependency demands others for directions in life. Such gullibility asks for tyranny.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Domestic violence
Without love, the love of the bliss of ignorance, and of martyrdom, there is no overlooking of unreasonable behaviour.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Domestic violence
The passive-aggressive person likes to egg-on the 'explodingly angry' partner, because they like to see the deeply remorseful, guilt-crippled person crawling.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Domestic violence
The dynamics of anger are easy to understand. The more that an angry violent person abuses others, the more enslaved to guilt and demoralisation, and the more hated and needed the apparently pure, sinless victims. Martyrdom is therefore a necessary component of domestic violence - get rid of that, and the abuse stops.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships
To be attractive to women: Focus on some particular activity and excel at it. This will automatically make you attractive to women without your having to do much else. However, you will need to make sure that whatever you excel at is valued by both women and society. If you excel at something that only you appreciate, or that very few people appreciate, this will not make you attractive to women. So you may need to decide between the values of others and your own values.
Kevin Solway (173)
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Main > Living > Relationships
Someone crying: There is usually not much to do. Quietly wait for them to master themselves. You can offer some tissues. It's often possible to distract them with something interesting, at which point they can see the situation in a different light.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships
Someone ranting: They just need to get it off their chest. If you interrupt, they will go on longer. Be patient, and they will eventually mention their real interests.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Making friends
Pay attention to your first impressions of a person. People try to hide their psychological flaws, with a skillful act to charm. While in vino veritas, a better way to find out the degree of their wisdom or lack thereof is to test for psychological instability by seeing how much they wish to change you. This can only work if you yourself are an individual with your own thoughts.
kellyjones00 (593)
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Main > Living > Relationships > Making friends
Don't interrupt people, unless it's an emergency or they're boring and you want to leave.
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